Father Kirk's Daily Lenten Reflection
4th Sunday of Lent: March 19, 2023
To any Christian the parable of the Prodigal Son is one of the most familiar stories in all of scripture. Even though it is known as the parable of the Prodigal Son – the story is really not so much about the son as it is about the father.
In a nut shell the story describes a son who committed an unforgiveable sin – he asked for his share of his inheritance which in the Middle Eastern mind meant that he wished his father dead. Not only did he commit the unforgivable, his request would have never been granted by any father. But the father does the unthinkable gives the son his inheritance.
Flush with cash the man runs off and blows the money. When he finds himself in dire straits he decides to go home and offer himself as a deal – Dad you can have me back but pay me. (You see in those days landowners used slaves for most things only the skilled workers were actually paid. If the son were really remorseful he would have suggested that the father take him back as one of the slaves.) The son was going home because he was hungry and poor – not because he was sorry.
As it turns out the father – who should have in the first place rejected his son – was all-the-while praying, and actually watching for his return. Upon catching the faintest glimpse of him – the father runs toward the son. (That would seem a simple thing but in that culture men didn’t run – it was considered humiliating for a man over 50 to run. Furthermore, if a man did run he would have had to hike up his robe thus showing his bare legs which would have been yet another humiliation.)
Upon reaching the son, the father - instead of having him beaten to death which would have been justified – hugs him and kisses him. He then directs that his son be dressed – in an expensive robe, with shoes, and a ring. (Be mindful that the robe was an indication that the son’s place in the household had been restored. The shoes were a sign that he was once again an heir of the master – servants and slaves were barefooted, only family members wore shoes. And the ring was a symbol that the son once again had authority to act in his father’s name.)
The Son is thereby overcome as a result of the whole outlandish demonstration of his father’s love and loyalty … and the grace of the moment transforms his heart. Perhaps for the first time the son’s heart is truly turned toward his father.
Jesus’ message is astounding and it is this: even though we like the son think that we do all the work when it comes to repentance and reconciliation, we do not - God does. Like the father in the story God loves us so much that he is willing to suffer and be humiliated and even lay down his own life to get us back. God loves us so much that he comes after us and searches for us in the eternal hope that we will come back to him with all our hearts. The only work that we have to do is to accept God’s love and the fact that we did not find God but rather that God found us.